Tiara Lestari's Personal Journal

My words, my feeling, my memories, my experiences. Mostly, this is me.

Thursday, October 13, 2005

Pick your question.. and girlpower!

Hey girls! I think it is time for us to get together. The boys can't have all the fun, right?? For you women who have been visiting this blog. Thank you. I have created a place just for us women. It is called Tiara Lestari's For Women Only. We can share ideas and stories. Absolutely no men may enter the premises! (Robin, Doc, Marco, don't even think about it :)
Now boys (and Ayu:), thank you for all the question you post via comments in response to my "Ask me" posting a couple of days ago. I honestly could not believe how many questions you guys have on that posting. I can't decide which one is the best! So, here they are: the top 10 questions. Pick one.. and I do mean one question for me to answer (via comment not via email ok?). The top question will get the VIP treatment of being my next posting subject. Most important.. I will be as blatantly honest as humanly possible in answering that one question. I am waiting...
  1. What is my passion?
  2. Given that the lifespan of a model is usually short where do I see myself in the next 5 years?
  3. Describe my perfect romantic evening and describe my wildest fantasy?
  4. What is my happiest day like?
  5. Tell a little a story about my childhood, and also about what makes me become a model?
  6. What kind a man do I like ?
  7. What is the most craziest-bitchiest-hottest fantasies that I've think about lately?
  8. Have I found my soulmate?
  9. What do I really want from life?
  10. What is "friend" for me, how do I describe that word?

Honestly, I don't like it when someone post anonymously. So, I am not answering those questions. How unfair it is for you to know my name and I have to call you Mr. A? Write your name when you post a comment..please..

There are two questions I will answer now loudly: I am not now or ever be interested to be part of the porn industry. Second, You cannot pay me USD 1 Billion dollar to be a sex escort (or any other escort). Not gonna happen!

Last, but not least, there are questions that require short answers, and I will go ahead and answer them now:

  1. Do I want to came back to Indonesia ? Yes
  2. Do I have any boyfriend? Yes
  3. How many encounter do I already have ? I have ___ encounter :)
  4. Who are the people that I love most right now (besides family)? My boyfriend, Arta and his kids
  5. Do I eat fast food? Yup
  6. Where do I usually go in weekend? Night Clubs and my sofa
  7. Am I..really me? Ehm.. duh.. yes :)
  8. If offered lots of money, would I be in Porn? NO
  9. Do I think "Bonanza" was a true depiction of life in the West? NO
  10. If not do you think that Zarina, the notorious drug girl (in Indonesia) would be a good subject of a new tv show? NO
  11. Am I part of en escort agency? HELL NO. Shawn loser.. stop emailing me
  12. What is the most important thing to me right now, such that I am willing to sacrifice my life for it ? My family
  13. What is my passion and ambition after modeling? Being a good wife and mother
  14. What is your favorite brand? Gucci bags, and Chanel make up


  • At October 13, 2005 5:22 AM, Anonymous Dr. Lee said…

    Hi Tiara,

    Saying men are not allowed to visit your women's page - especially when you specifically name me - is like a red rag to a bull! The photo I never saw there was very nice anyway. ;-)

    Out of the questions you list, I guess the soul mate one is the most interesting one for me. It seems you are in a good relationship, but I'd still like to know more about what a 'soul mate' represents to you.

    Out of the questions you didn't list, I thought the 'naked' one was the most interesting - I've often wondered why some one would want to bare their soul in public on a blog!

  • At October 13, 2005 5:34 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…


  • At October 13, 2005 6:35 AM, Blogger Sophmore said…

    YAY I made the top 10...with that I am voting for my original question

    Describe your perfect romantic evening and describe your wildest fantasy?


  • At October 13, 2005 7:06 AM, Anonymous chalky26 said…

    An amusing trawl through your questions and why is it that when one has become a model one attracts an interesting cross section of the reading public. Not least of all those who immediately assume ownership of the author and presume to make comments best left behind the bike shed where they belong.

    Revealing one's fantasies would perhaps reduce the blog to a newly consigned pool and in the process lose those with an intellect willing to be challenged and to challenge.

    Learning of what one's soul mate might be is akin to a wolf dressing in lamb's clothing.

    To choose one's own question is most unlikely to secure the necessary votes as one should choose on merit not simply because one wrote the question.

    So here is to question no.1 What is your passion.

    Interesting choice as it is not "who is your passion" or "what makes you passionate" and has more of the soul in it than "what a soulmate represents" - a thinly veiled and not disguised "what do we have to do to become your boyfriend" !!

    To my fellow correspondents do not be alarmed or offended by my comments. They are not meant to offend merely to throw a different light on the subject matter. We are after all holding a discussion with a person not an object. Let us become a community and in so doing each and everyone's soul will be revealed in different ways and as such we all become richer in the process.

    Dare we say also perhaps a little more cosmopolitan also

  • At October 13, 2005 8:20 PM, Blogger Avi said…


    I really dig your blog. It is great to see more interesting Indonesian blogs. I am based in Jakarta myself.

    I would like you to answer question #2. Basically because I hope to find out that you have a good head on your shoulders and you realize that good looks wont last forever. Although you are smart enough to be making good use of it now ;-)

    PS. Hope you dont mind if I use a pic from your blog to link you.

  • At October 13, 2005 8:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hallo mbak tiara, bodyne sampeyan nggak nguwati ... aku rak kuwat mbak. Iki bulan puasa ... mben delok blog-mu aku kepengen batal 'ik .. piye jal mbak? ono solusi kanggo aku rak? hehehe ... peace out girl, keep getting naked, and viva javanese! yay!

  • At October 14, 2005 2:32 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Score 1 for soulmate question.
    Score 1 Romantic evening and wildest fantasy question
    Score 1 For what is my passion
    Score 1 For what I'd do the next 5 years

    This is actually getting confusing.. no clear winner. At this rate we may have ten different answer from ten different people.

    I am not posting until we got a clear winner. :)


  • At October 14, 2005 2:54 AM, Blogger Your David said…

    Let's hear about whether you've found your soulmate and "love of your life". I think I remember you talking about this before.

    That ought to be interesting . . .

  • At October 14, 2005 3:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,

    I am a bit surprise about your remark on not wanting to response to anonymous postings ... Yes, I do agree that some of them can be very unpleasant, but forcing someone to use a name or email address may not address issue ... The last thing we want to see is you falling into the trap of engaging someone with fake names and email address.

    I am just one of the many others anonymous fans and admirers of you, who buy magazines, calendars, and other publications containing you photos ... silently behind the scenes cheering and begging for more of you as we want you to be successful ... so we can keep seeing your beautiful works.

    Signed by and always ... Your Indonesian Admirer

    PS. dr. lee, thank you for voting for my 'naked' question.

  • At October 14, 2005 5:00 AM, Anonymous Raya said…

    Evening, ma'am.
    I vote for question no.1, what is your passion. Passion here means interest, no? Then I'd like to know your interests :)

  • At October 14, 2005 5:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey, I found your blog the other day and have been reading a few of your posts. Just wanted to let you know that I admire you, you seem like a very strong and intelligent woman. I understand you don't like anonymous posters, but that's just a personal choice..Didn't want it to stop me from complimenting you, and letting you know that I find your blog very interesting!

    (of course the photos you post catch the eye as well, you're gorgeous!)

  • At October 14, 2005 6:13 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Getting better..

    Now Score 2 for soulmate..
    Score 2 for passion..

    I feel like a score keeper in a football match here boys :)


  • At October 14, 2005 7:45 AM, Blogger Sophmore said…

    ok, i thought of another good question if you have the time...

    (a few parts to it)

    - did your parents name you Tiara or did you change it yourself?
    - does your name mean anything where you are from?
    - does it have anything to do with the many beauty contests I am sure you have won?

    (thanks for humoring me)

  • At October 14, 2005 8:40 AM, Anonymous chalky26 said…

    Anonymous can mean many things but why not use a pseudonym it is far more personal and less cold and uninviting - perhaps this is what our muse alludes to.

    It is nice to see that "passion" has been correctly defined rather than in the narrower and more tawdry context. Far more interesting than learning something more akin to Dr Ruth.

    In order that we may return to the normality of life - what is normal - I shall cast my hat in the ring for the "passion" - defined here as interests rather than in that of a sexual connotation.

  • At October 14, 2005 2:36 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    last question...do you wear wig? hair extensions? it's kind of noticeable..

  • At October 14, 2005 10:22 PM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Well, the passion question is now officially leading. I give it one more day than we have a winner! Unless some of you want to know more about me other than my passion..

    Peter.. hey now.. you made it to the top ten and now asking more question?? :)


  • At October 15, 2005 3:55 AM, Anonymous Andre said…

    I vote for SoulMate so this made SoulMate and Passion at a tie. The reason I ask this is because all this time I search for my soulmate.

    so... What is soulmate means to you ? do you feel like you have known your boyfriend for a long time just when your relation just started ? and if any, what was SoulMate means to you ?

  • At October 15, 2005 4:36 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Andre.. I was just preparing the posting for the passion question.. now I have to wait again! :)

    Thank you though..


  • At October 15, 2005 10:09 AM, Anonymous Lucia said…

    My vote goes to soulmate as well.. Can't wait to read the post!

  • At October 15, 2005 10:59 AM, Anonymous Farah said…

    Hey Girl

    The question that I pick is:

    Have you found your soulmate? And what exactly is soulmate to you? =)


  • At October 15, 2005 4:44 PM, Blogger Jeffry M Liando said…

    hi, you're great. keep that good work.

  • At October 16, 2005 2:35 AM, Anonymous Habibie said…

    My question is: How come a girl with a chanel make up and gucci bags chose free-blogging service, i.e. Blogger as opposed to affordable, much more powerful and personalizable blogging services such as Typepad?

    Sorry I know it's about picking up not making up questions. But your self-made questions are lame.

  • At October 16, 2005 3:13 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Mr President Habibie? I am kidding..Are you related to the former Indonesian president? Sorry, I was a bit shock to see the name..

    Mr Habibie, those questions were not self made. It was asked by commentators such as yourself few days ago.

    On your question.. hmm.. I like free stuff.. is that so wrong? :)


  • At October 16, 2005 4:10 AM, Anonymous rendy said…

    hi tiara,

    i pick question no.9

    how do i really want from life ?

    my answer is wisdom, because it's the higher spiritual level of life.. ;)

  • At October 19, 2005 7:17 AM, Blogger fydfboyz said…

    Mbaa tiara,, makasiyhh, thanks alot yah udah d jawab my question,,, :)) so happy to heard dat u lurv to eat fast food, come down to burger king at Cineleisure yah, on weekend, i'll give u burger free!! :D I mean it!! ;)

    Tekker sis ,,

  • At October 29, 2005 7:12 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    wanita begitu indah ...
    anugerah tak datang kesetiap wanita
    kebahagiaan dan dukacita hanyalah sebagian cerita untukmu...
    orang bijak mengatakan "gunakanlah anugerah itu sebagai rasa syukurmu... Thats it' from me bozen_nih@yahoo.co.id..

  • At December 21, 2006 11:46 AM, Blogger Ralph said…

    I would like to know about you wildest fantasy. :))


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