Tiara Lestari's Personal Journal

My words, my feeling, my memories, my experiences. Mostly, this is me.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Playboy in Indonesia?

I appeared on the cover of Playboy, Spain edition last August. I think everyone and their mothers know about that if you live in Indonesia. Lets just get that fact out in the open. Now, I have this blog for a reason and one of them is to be a medium for my voice for matters that concern me most. This is one of those moments.

I have been asked by a large number of Indonesian media about two things:
1. How do you feel about Playboy being published in Indonesia?
2. How do you feel about potentially appearing as the first cover of Playboy Indonesia?

I respect Playboy as an internationally known publication. Everyone from legendary Marilyn Monroe to Pamela Anderson to Madonna to Cindy Crawford have benefited from their professional relationships with the magazine. I have made a personal decision as a model to also follow that route last year. This decision certainly wasn't popular in my own country. Heck, it was a huge disappointment for my parents too. I regret that part of it. For that, I am sorry.

For my parents who I love very much, and for them alone, I have made another personal decision to not pursue that line of work anymore. Being on the cover of Playboy can be considered peak of any model's career. As they say, "Been there done that."

However, I was aware of one thing; I appeared in a country that does not consider Playboy and nudity as taboo. My appearance was never intended for consumption of Indonesia. How many Indonesians do you now read Playboy Spain? My pictures circulating on the internet happened without my being consulted. I do not have rights to those pictures. Not offending my countrymen was one of the criteria of my decision making process in appearing in Playboy Spain.

So now we are going to have Playboy Indonesia. It's hard to imagine a magazine with a very specific and uncompromising character published in a country where the same character is considered taboo. Why I ask? I am just a model, but when people ask my personal opinion about Playboy Indonesia, that would be my short answer. I mean really, what kind of content adjustment do they need to make so Playboy can be accepted by Indonesians? That is like asking TIME magazine to only do gossip or Hollywood celebrities news. Not gonna happen.

If you were to put gado-gado in McDonald, they would probably call it Mac-Gado-gado. Whatever content adjustment that is planned for Playboy Indonesia, it is still Playboy magazine. Period.

Should Indonesian Government stop Playboy from appearing? No. Especially if Playboy Indonesia already have legal documents to publish the mag. Should Indonesians who are unhappy with having Playboy in Indonesia voice their opinions? Absolutely. I am proud the fact that Indonesia, in many cases, can be considered more democratic than even the US. Heck, we vote our President directly, Americans do not. So let us debate without hurting each other. Be angry using our voice instead of our fists. You don't like Playboy in Indonesia, speak with your wallet. Don't buy it.

So, should Playboy be in Indonesia? In my personal opinion, I do not believe they should until TIME magazine started to write about Hollywood celebrities only :)

How do I feel about potentially being on the first cover of Playboy Indonesia? Just like my pictures circulating on the Internet... not much I can do about it. I do not have rights of my old pictures, so they can requests those pictures without my approval. If Playboy Indonesia ask me to be on the first cover, I will humbly decline such request.

There ya go.. my personal opinion.

Tiara

PS: Teman-teman press Indonesia, untuk tambahan, bisa dilihat disini.

93 Comments:

  • At January 25, 2006 4:07 AM, Blogger Tup Tup said…

    As an Indonesian girl, you have a unique personality...
    Kamu tidak mau tampil di Playboy Indonesia...?
    Saya harap itu bukan keputusan final..

     
  • At January 25, 2006 5:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Ayoh.....get a spirit..buat tampil di PB Indonesia

     
  • At January 25, 2006 9:59 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara,you are quite a walking contradiction.Been there done that yes woman we comprehend but how an impression left.I mean personally respect your personal choice in life and hell ya but the world is so small not everything could be deleted even nudees of you will be fondly remembered i say. There was a line in all choices and as long u dun hit the wrong nerve.Modelling is short lived but if u could prove many of the masses who had misinterpret since Playboy Spain bet u still clean the stain that linger.so been there done that is a question of to be proud or a question of pride and the prejudice of the masses?

     
  • At January 25, 2006 11:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I agree with u.. biarlah kata orang bangsa ini kolot.. Tapi bangsa ini tetap Indonesia.. "Don't buy Playboy!"

    Salut mbak.. benar2 hebat..

    I've trackback, check this here.

     
  • At January 25, 2006 9:36 PM, Blogger Mockingbird said…

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  • At January 25, 2006 9:37 PM, Blogger Mockingbird said…

    I have read in the press that the publisher has agreed to do without any nudity in the Indonesian edition of Playboy as they respect the fact that Indonesia is a Muslim country and its people generally have very conservative views concerning pornography. If they won't shoot you in the nude, will you still decline to appear on the Indonesian edition of Playboy? :)

     
  • At January 25, 2006 10:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,
    Where did you get the idea that Americans don't vote their president and vice president? They heve been voting their presidents since a long time ago while Indonesians have had just started 2 years ago.
    Don't get me wrong, I said this not because I am not proud of Indonesia, I really am. I just want to correct some facts, that's all.
    Greetings from NYC.

     
  • At January 25, 2006 10:59 PM, Blogger tempo dulu said…

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  • At January 26, 2006 2:51 AM, Blogger Triwil said…

    You have a beautifull Heart.

    I Respect your choice, but you also respect other Indonesian's view about nudity.

    Bravo.!!!

     
  • At January 26, 2006 3:30 AM, Blogger Tup Tup said…

    Sorry OOT,

    Map dibawah cukup mengganggu karena menurutku itu view untuk visitor www.123stat.com bukan website kamu... Kenapa tidak menampilkan map untuk visitor web/blogger kamu?
    Sorry kalau tidak berkenan...

     
  • At January 26, 2006 8:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara, nudity or no nudity, I'd love to see you on Playboy again. All the best. And thanks for linking to us. =)
    - HMGguy

     
  • At January 26, 2006 9:11 AM, Blogger agamoto said…

    I imagine the magazine will be similar in format to FHM, Popular, Maxim, etc. They can't fool us though, we know what's under those bikinis, right fellas? Indonesia needs another one of these vapant rags like I need testicular cancer.

    Guy from NYC, American people don't put their president in office, the electoral college does.

    Indocoup... I love reading your blog, but for the love of christ man, are you still all wound up because Tiara didn't link back to you way back when? Quit being such a trite little crybaby.

    Tiara, if you want to be a successful model/actress outside of Indonesia, I think you'd be making a mistake by not being on that cover, especially since you wouldn't have to strip down... However, if your goal is to one day return to Indonesia to act/model, you probably made the right call.

    Adieu

     
  • At January 27, 2006 12:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    gw masih gak ngerti...

    lo gak setuju krn pakai nama playboy atau krn foto telanjang?

     
  • At January 27, 2006 1:36 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Everyone,

    Thanks for all your comments. And I do mean ALL. For me, this whole thing simply comes down to two things:
    1. My Personal Decision about appearing in PB Spain. and;
    2. My Personal Opinion about Playboy Indonesia.

    Hell, what do I know...I'm a just a model :)

    I do know that censorship is wrong from any point of view. You see the way I run my Blog; people can say whatever they want to say. Even the stupid ones….

    Here's my gift to both sides of the argument:

    For those who are against Playboy Indonesia:
    http://www.petitiononline.com/tolakpor/petition.html

    For those who are for Playboy Indonesia:
    http://www.petitiononline.com/pbid2006/petition.html

    May the voice of reason and tolerance prevail!

    Tiara

     
  • At January 27, 2006 2:05 AM, Blogger wahyudi pratama said…

    oh playboy spanyol toh kirain playboy US atau mana ..hehehehehe

     
  • At January 27, 2006 4:18 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I cannot wait until Playboy Indo launches...( I am sure millions other horny Indo muslim men feel the same)..there will be more beautiful.. more sexy..Indonesian girls than Tiara..and hopefully some of the girls are sooo hot that Playboy USA will invite them to appear NUDE !!..very soon Tiara will be forgotten..FREEDOM for Indonesian hot girls !! Tiara who??

     
  • At January 27, 2006 4:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara , if Adam Yurman never discovered you and posted your photos on www.pacificbeauty.com , you would've never ended up on Playboy, Adam helped you to get there. But the issue is , you accepted Adam Yurman's click to pay site $9 for the whole album...wow that's cheap ! and now your nude photos are all over the www for FREE ! that's even sad..I don't look at you as Playboy model, but you were just one of "click to pay" model on website like miliion others.Once adam Yurman finds another hot Indo girl, she will be just the same as you...a cheap nude model.. Adam Yurman sure got a "BANG" for A "BUCK " LOL

     
  • At January 27, 2006 6:20 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    punten, sampurasun... teh, teteh ini nga cantik tapi kenapa kok bisa jadi covernya majalah pleboi?

     
  • At January 27, 2006 6:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    In Bahasa :\
    Apa yg kamu katakan itu ada benarnya, tapi yg paling penting buat bangsa ini adalah "identitas",karena dalam berbagai hal kita hanya ikut2an (termasuk saya) tidak bisa menjadi trendsetter/panutan kecuali bulutangkis tentunya, mudah2an masalah playboy ini pun juga jgn menjadi "iklan gratis" buat Playboy Inc.(karena menjadi perdebatan dimana-mana sampe di gedung DPR,ampe2 temen gw pesen playboy via internet gara terinpirasi oleh berita perdebatan di DPR). Saya yakin majalah tersebut akan masuk juga ke indonesia cepat atau lambat(ciri manusia indonesia),harapan saya (cie...)mudah-mudahan majalah mangle dari jawa barat juga bisa masuk ke amerika dan majalah ini saya yakin dijamin gak perlu diperdebatkan oleh anggota konggres di amerika jika akan masuk ke amerika, untuk edisi pertama covernya si cepot "naked"
    in english :/
    go..go...girl let's promote indonesia
    visit my http://no1-hybrid-cars.blogspot.com visit yah..

     
  • At January 27, 2006 7:03 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You have a lot of weight on your shoulders! Not wanting to offend your parents and your countrymen.

    I am an asian-american that grew up in the US so I understand the conservative nature of asian parents, but I am not familiar with living in a conservative country.

    Personally, as a parent, it would be difficult to see your child nude on the cover of a magazine, but if they truly love you, they should get over it.

    As to your countrymen, well, you can't make everybody happy as you go through life. It is impossible. You seem like a very considerate person who takes everybody's feelings into consideration when you make a decision. That's fine, but understand there will always be some people who will not be happy with the decisions you make, especially as a public figure, and don't let that get you down. Life is hard enough without trying to make everybody happy. And if people don't respect your own choices in life, I say the heck with them.

    You only live once! Are you going to make mistakes along the way? Heck yes, but everybody does! Don't dwell on them, learn from any mistakes and move on.

    In 5-10 years from now, when you have a loving family of your own, it's my guess all this will probably not mean so much anyway.

    Good Luck, you're pictures are beautiful!

    James Lee

     
  • At January 27, 2006 8:48 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara, You rock and smart Indonesian girl

     
  • At January 27, 2006 12:47 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    wah-wah pada rame ngomongin play boy... dikit-dikit sih pengin ngerti tapi banyakan juga gpp hehehe....
    sbnrnya gmn nih perkembangannya,.. PB tetep jualan gak nih di kampung kita

     
  • At January 27, 2006 2:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    TIARA..when are you going to pose nude wearing JILBAB only ? if you do I am sure the Arab Playboy would then publish your photos !!! ..LOL

     
  • At January 27, 2006 2:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara.. your next photo shoots should take place in Mecca when you are going to be a Muslim Haj , so you while going there why not pose naked in front of the pilgrims and wear your JILBAB only (Muslim headscarf)... I am sure you would be even more famous!

     
  • At January 27, 2006 6:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    What worries me about 'Playboy' magazine in Indonesia is that it will trigger more anti-american reation from the fanatics and fundamentalists here, heck even the moderates are screaming bloody murder even before seeing the magazine itself. The effect we're seeing now is not because of the content (like Binky said, it will most probably be like FHM and the sorts, still more polite than the local bikini tabloids) but because of what the brand or name represents.

    It's like asking for trouble, slowly building an anti-american sentiment for even broader mass in the world's biggest muslim population. Personally I wish this won't happen. Not that I don't like Playboy, it's just the long term effect that scares me.

    I still prefer the local bikini tabloids, they're more, uh, real. Hahahaha...

     
  • At January 28, 2006 1:29 PM, Blogger agamoto said…

    Let them publish their silly little skin magazine, let Islamic tempers rise over nothing other than a silly little 'brand name'... Let Tiara be on the cover of the first issue... Who gives a shit... In fact, any Indonesian girl will do. This country desparately needs something cohesive they can group together an and wave their mighty muslim fists at... Why they aren't irate over their own government is beyond me, but whatever...

    I've been all around this great big world and I've never lived in a city so "stuck" in nuetral as the cesspool they call Jakarta. Bring on the scantily clad muslim girls! It can't make shit here on the street any worse than it already is.

    Damn,I forgot to grab my smokes that I bought down at the warung... Later.

    Holy Christ on a Crutch... Is it really 4:30 AM?

    I gotta go nappy.

     
  • At January 28, 2006 7:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    TIARA..LET'S set the record straight..did you decide yourself not to pose for playboy...OR they never offered you to pose ?

     
  • At January 30, 2006 12:05 AM, Blogger agamoto said…

    William,

    That's a con, not a pro.

    The scenario you describe wherein a candidate concentrates on key states carrying the largest electoral votes and/or the small handful of swing states where the vote could go either way to the occlusion of all other less "significant" states is exactly what happens today and is one of the main reasons cited in the demand for electoral reform.

    A federal system of government of the people, by the people, for the people, provided you're one of the lucky people registered to vote in one of the top 14 states in the 51 state union.

    Political science and Playboy. What a thread.

     
  • At January 30, 2006 12:30 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You will probably never read this, but I want to let you know the truth from a westerner's point of view, who lives in Jakarta. a) Playboy is not porn - those who want porn log onto the internet, they do not fork out dollars for a magazine that doesn't fuel their fantasies. b) Posing for Playboy will open you to squillions of creeps and wierdos, as the comments to your blog show. You have to learn to say f*** you to them and move on. c) Indonesians are such hypocrits; there are demos against Indo Playboy full of jilbabbed women who have no clue and have never seen it; men with 5 wives; religious leaders who only know the name but surf the dirty sites every day etc. d) If your main concern is the reaction of your parents, how did they happen to see PB Espanol? And how old are you? Do you really need to apologise to your parents for taking advantage of a wonderful gift?
    The bottom line is that many people appreciate beauty such as you possess. It's up to you whether you grasp the opportunity or not. Personally I will visit wherever you happen to decide to model. I am a fan!

     
  • At January 31, 2006 5:00 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    dear tiara,

    I gotta say that I admire the opinions you made here...it affirms my belief that models such as yourself goes against the grain and thinking that models are bimbos. For that alone, I support your efforts!

     
  • At January 31, 2006 9:20 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Apakah Playboy itu bisa dipisahain dari globalisasi?
    Can Playboy be separated from globalisation?

     
  • At February 02, 2006 5:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    From the Spiderman movie : "The great power come the great responsibility"

    Good decision girl..you know your own power . Power as popular model that able to influence people . Dont do it for tukang becak , gembel2 , wong cilik etc . Go hell with those smart ass people ..claim that freedom is the answer of all . Come on .. there's a lot of small people out there that doesnt care all mambo jambo about freedom . They need food . So , instead of giving them nude .. give them fuud .

     
  • At February 06, 2006 5:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    The outrage against Indo Playboy is a joke. You cannot walk thru any market without some sleaz offering blue movies or a real live girl, worse than any other city in SE Asia.

    What reaaly is offensive is you cannot drink the water in Jakarta, mothers and 6 month old babies begging on dirty street corners..

    Good on, pose if you want and make a life for yourself and leave the small minded twits in the cess pool where they belong.

     
  • At February 07, 2006 12:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You said that McDonald could offer Mac-Gado-gado. But why can't Playboy magazine published if the content adjusted to Indonesian's custom? Is it only because the name is Playboy?

    You made your choice and appeared as a model in Playboy Spain. Not a big deal. I'm sure that we won't assume every Indonesian model will do such thing.

    Oh dear, you are generalizing.

     
  • At February 08, 2006 1:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I read Angelina Sondakh blog five minutes before I stumbled here.

    I have a very good laugh reading the princess posts, as she tried very hard to convince people that she's smart!

    Unlike her, your post is very nice. You showed people that nice tits do not equals less brain.. :D

    Keep on writing gal..

    as for your opinion for not being the first cover of PB, thats your choice.. don't mind other people's talking.

    www.rumahsari.com

     
  • At February 10, 2006 2:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,

    As you know I allready posted on Asian Sirens about you being a bit negative (in my opinion) on the whole Playboy issue, but I was wondering about your true feelings on working with Adam and your opinion about the work he shot.

    Robin

     
  • At February 10, 2006 12:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    jgn pura2 lugu lah!!!

     
  • At February 10, 2006 6:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey guys, do u know that Tiara is not the first Indonesian who post for playboy. U guys need to check out playmate of the year 2000 from Playboy USA. Her name is Jody Ann Foster if i am not mistaken. Her mother come from Balikpapan and her father is american, How come nobody know about this???? She is really hot.I think i am quite proud that there is a girl who has indonesian blood still can be playmate of the year.Tiara, If i am in ur position , i'd give the same opinion as you, Because there are so many Hyocrite plus idiot indonesian who will burn your parent or ur relative house, if they publish you on their first edition of playboy INdonesia. I am sure about that, and you are getting on jail.

     
  • At February 11, 2006 11:55 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i really admire you for being so open minded yet still having your "indonesian roots". i am indonesian too, yet maybe you can say im more westernized.
    im actually one of those who are pro-playboy indonesia, and in a way, i do think that this will cause a major up-roar, of course, since we are the biggest muslim country in the world.
    but if you think about it, indonesia is a country of hypocrites. yes, they say that these things arent up to our norms, but if you investigate the houses of most indonesians you will find stacks of magazines, dvds, vcds, and pictures of things that can be "playboy"related.
    it all comes to the culture of the indonesians- budaya "gengsi" dan "jaim".

     
  • At February 11, 2006 8:24 PM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Hi everyone...

    Well, hi there mr. Robin! It is nice to see you back on my blog. For those of you who don't know, Robin is one of the "bosses" at asian-siren site. One of my favorite boys :)

    Robin, I think I need to address this one question of yours very specifically. Look, Adam Yurman is one of the best photographers in the world. Heck, in my book, he IS the best. Hands down. When it comes to quality of work, I will never ever say any differently when it comes to Adam Yurman.

    Everything that I have gone through is a personal learning experience and neither me nor Adam are prepared for it. But I will always respect the quality of pictures he produced.

    Now about being "a bit negative" on Playboy Indonesia? I think I am very negative when it comes to Playboy in Indonesia. My personal opinion is that I do not believe that Playboy should be in Indonesia. Period.

    But I don't believe in cencorship and do not believe they should be banned. I do however reserve the right to be very unhappy with their plan to be in my country.

    Again, this is just my personal opinion. ;)

    Tiara

     
  • At February 15, 2006 5:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Geez , All hail " Tiara "
    Im indonesian and hell yea i enjoy ur pics tiara and wondering why everybody cant,rather than talk sh*t .. 1 thing : Do what u gotta do tiara ..2 thumbs up !!

     
  • At February 17, 2006 7:58 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi,

    I asked you before but maybe you want to check out this link to see if I am right.
    Is this you in the "adult" video, download the "nonie-noraini" one
    http://www.canberrasec.net/~c1e332/Metal/ (may take some time)
    No offense by all means, if not who is she, she looks alot like you.
    Hope to have your reply

     
  • At February 18, 2006 9:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hi tiara....
    please peek inside my web page :
    http://www.hi5.com/i?l=MW63SPV
    it's a pleasure to meet you.
    cheer's

     
  • At February 19, 2006 2:10 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Semoga Tiara dibukakan hati dan diberikan hidayah untuk cepat bertobat dan menemukan jalan terbaik yg diridhoi oleh Tuhan. Hidup cuma sebentar. Jangan mau diexploitasi dalam bentuk apapun. Hormatilah diri sendiri, maka orang lain akan menghormati dirimu. Bullshit yang namanya seni ada di playboy. Itu budaya barat, bukan budaya Indonesia. Wake up girl! look at your parents, your family.

     
  • At February 20, 2006 1:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,

    All I want to say that you should do whatever you think is right. You're a smart adult woman and you have all the right to expose your flesh. I'm not into this skin baring business, and I won't call them art, but again, it's your skin, your body, therefore, your business as long as you're not harming it.

    However, I feel that it would be unwise for you to expose yourself like that when you're Indonesian,it's not because you should stick to Indonesian culture or anything, it's more because of Indonesians are not ready for it. A lot of them are poorly educated and they are easily provoked by certain organisations that have hidden agendas, and they use this controversy as a tool.

    And also, looking at the barbaric and primitive culture of those 'religious'Indonesians in approaching everything with violence, it might cause harm to your family and I bet you'd want to avoid that.

    I think a lot of these so called 'religious' Indonesians are bloody hypocrites banning everything they called pornography when a lot of them are out there buying for porn dvds that have less publication.

    Banning playboy?? look around us, you can find lots of local tabloids with bikini cladded girls on the cover, why don't they deal with those first? or the porn dvds. If they don't like Playboy, simply ignore it and don't buy it, it's as simple as that, that's where the moral test is.

    And you know what, the more you try to prevent this stuff, the more people will be interested. It's the nature of human to want something that they can't get. As a result, look at the crime rates in Indonesia that are related to sexual abuse to women. The more incredible thing is that they blame all of this acts on women, whom they said wearing clothes that are to sexy!!!

    Anyway, that's all from me. All the best for you Tiara.

    Cheers

     
  • At February 20, 2006 7:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Jeng Tiara, there's a thin line between wrong and right. The choice is yours. And people go insane. Ignore and be pride, la couqeluche. Glad to know you.

     
  • At February 23, 2006 11:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Nama asli Tiara : Ayu Lestari, 'cah kampung yang ambisius, "ngiler" dan "mimpi" jadi model glamour tapi'ga berhasil, akhirnya "genduk" satu ini ambil jalan pintas jadi model nudis skaligus a pornstar dan sekaligus pelacur (?) di singapore dan memang berhasil dia jadi "terkenal"cuma sayangnya "terkenal" bukan karena prestasi tetapi karena "keberaniannya" bugil dan main sebagai a pornstardan a cheap slut. sekarang segala cara dicobanya untuk "memulihkan" nama baiknya dengan mengaku-aku sebagai pembuat blog ini, orang bodoh mana yang percaya ??? sekolah juga kaga', asal dari kampung, cuma mengandalkan yang "kebetulan" bodynya bagus dan kata orang bule "exotic" tapi bagi orang asia malah terkesan "dekil". anyway, semaikin banyak orang komentar di "blog nya"semakin bangga dia, seolah-olah menjadi center of attention, seperti sifat exhibionist yang dimilikinya. hidupnya penuh kepura-puraan dan palsu, seperti "wig" yang selalu dipakainya - palsu - dengan membawa-bawa agama di journalnya dan lain-lain tak akan mengubah apapun, karena orang melihat apa yang telah kamu perbuat, kalaupun seandainya ada someone yang ngaku "fallin in love" with you sekarang rasanya itu hanya "lust" bukan "love", cowok serius dan normal mana yang mau "bekas" orang-orang ?. kasian deh kamu ayu lestari...

     
  • At February 24, 2006 9:01 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    o...walah, nduk...nduk....lha kok kamu jadi murahan gini, ngga' punya harga diri dan menjijikkan,...kasian orang tua dan kerabat keluargamu yang menanggung malu akibat perbuatanmu. kalo parasmu jelek kamu kan bisa kamu gunakan otakmu, tuntut ilmu setinggi mungkin ato memang otakmu pas-pasan ? sekarang kamu ngaku-ngaku sebagai pembuat blog ini segala, lha wong di Solo kamu lulus SMP (junior school) juga ngga, nduk..nduk...wis,jangan nambah-nambahi dosa-dosamu sendiri lagi. be yourself !

     
  • At March 01, 2006 6:02 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Tiara,

    Now I completely respect your choice of not being on Playboy Indonesia, I also understand why you not think Playboy should be Indonesia, but what is the meaning of freedom of press, which you also believe in and what is the meaning of democracy?
    Now Indonesia is putting forward the Anti Pornography Bill, which will not allow kissing or unmarried couples to walk together in public...it will regulate personal appearance, expression and ethnical heritage...

    What are your thoughts on this?

    Also please consider that there are many minorities in Indonesia, why should Bali an island predominantly Hindu loose their cultural heritage, arts, history, and human rights???

    Also why is there soo much illegal porn in Indonesia? Because people like to see and watch it!!! This is about personal choice!!! I also agree that no Muslim should have to read Playboy, but again it is choice, choice is what makes a real democracy, everything else becomes fundamentalism...

    Just some thought from a concerned Bali lover ;-)

    http://ruu-app.blogspot.com/

    If you want to get the full version of the RUU APP and the proposed changes for Bali please write to: Ibu Lala yknlala2000@yahoo.com

    Christian

     
  • At March 01, 2006 7:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Bullshit ...
    All of this is bullshit ...
    You call it a choice ?
    Go to hell it's a choice ...
    You care about your countrymen?
    Stop nudity .. that's the choice ..
    Many our youngster become corrupt cos people like you ...
    Nudity for art .. that's all you people said .. bullshit! ...
    Wanna art? why don't you blow your head off .. that's art ! ...
    Less people like you much better the world ...

     
  • At March 06, 2006 9:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    well.. tiara gue salut banget ma lo, gue jg "nduk jowo", ini hidup lo, ambil aja keputusan lo, jgn peduliin orang2 yg ngaku tetanga lo yang sirik itu. Semua itu masa lalu ga usah di pikirin (ga penting!), hidup untuk masa depan. Semua manusia punya kelebihan dan kekurangan. Jadikanlah kelebihan itu untuk mencari uang (but no prostitute). Keep rock gals...

     
  • At March 10, 2006 9:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    loh tiara mau gimana kek terserah dia
    palingan saya lagi nabung inih,
    harus bayar berapa kira2 untuk bisa bermain
    kalo nggak bisa dibayar ya udah, cari lagi yg lain.
    nothing all right nothing is right,
    life is free.

    posenya ? mantab.
    bodynya ? mantab.

     
  • At March 26, 2006 3:07 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Eh...mbak Tiara...bagus juga fotonya...tapi ingat...hidup itu pendek...jangan selalu buka-bukaan aurat mbak tiara...sungguh sangat disayangkan jika mbak tiara tidak sadar bahwa dosanya akan mengalir terus sampai kiamat...belum ada kata terlambat sebelum masuk liang kubur...perbaiki diri...:)

     
  • At April 02, 2006 7:53 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mistake Are There To Be Learn isn't?

    go on with ur life gal, believe what ur believe.... and do it for yourself....

    Life with ur own way :D

    Cheerssssssssssss

     
  • At April 02, 2006 8:21 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    tiara,,,i'll always support you! mending pose telanjang daripada jadi artis munafik.
    dan org2 di ind semua jg pada munafik..pasti diantara yg demo anti pornografi,sebelumnya dah pernah liat foto tiara di PB. bener gak sih?? go for it, tiara...

     
  • At April 07, 2006 5:39 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Zal ik jouw is ff lekker komen vol blaffen?

     
  • At April 07, 2006 6:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    of tussen je tieten

     
  • At April 07, 2006 6:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    So you're posing in a magazine which you actually do not support in existing?

    Fool.

     
  • At April 07, 2006 6:09 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Trek ff snel je kleren uit potverdriedubbeltjes! We want photo's!

     
  • At April 07, 2006 6:54 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    doe maar effe hier komen, dan zal ome je met je arie even stevig aan het spit rijgen! hele fijne tetters meiske, daar kan ik wel een weekendje zoet mee zijn

     
  • At April 07, 2006 7:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara, neuken?!

     
  • At April 07, 2006 8:28 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    America, FUCK YEAH!
    Coming again, to save the mother fucking day yeah,
    America, FUCK YEAH!
    Freedom is the only way yeah,
    Terrorist your game is through cause now you have to answer too,
    America, FUCK YEAH!
    So lick my butt, and suck on my balls,
    America, FUCK YEAH!
    What you going to do when we come for you now,
    it’s the dream that we all share; it’s the hope for tomorrow

    FUCK YEAH!

    McDonalds, FUCK YEAH!
    Wal-Mart, FUCK YEAH!
    The Gap, FUCK YEAH!
    Baseball, FUCK YEAH!
    NFL, FUCK, YEAH!
    Rock and roll, FUCK YEAH!
    The Internet, FUCK YEAH!
    Slavery, FUCK YEAH!

    FUCK YEAH!

    Starbucks, FUCK YEAH!
    Disney world, FUCK YEAH!
    Porno, FUCK YEAH!
    Valium, FUCK YEAH!
    Reeboks, FUCK YEAH!
    Fake Tits, FUCK YEAH!
    Sushi, FUCK YEAH!
    Taco Bell, FUCK YEAH!
    Rodeos, FUCK YEAH!
    Bed bath and beyond (Fuck yeah, Fuck yeah)

    Liberty, FUCK YEAH!
    White Slips, FUCK YEAH!
    The Alamo, FUCK YEAH!
    Band-aids, FUCK YEAH!
    Las Vegas, FUCK YEAH!
    Christmas, FUCK YEAH!
    Immigrants, FUCK YEAH!
    Columbine, FUCK YEAH!
    Democrats, FUCK YEAH!
    Republicans (republicans)
    (fuck yeah, fuck yeah)
    Sportsmanship
    Books

     
  • At April 07, 2006 2:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Jangan beli Playboy ??????
    Di Indo ada KORUPSI !!!!!!
    Di Indo ada LONTE2 !!!!!!!
    Di Indo ada ALKOHOL !!!!!!
    Di Indo ada NIGHT-CLUB !!!!!
    Jangan so-soan dong !!!!!!

     
  • At April 08, 2006 11:29 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    sapa sih yg nulis pakai bhs inggris ttp gak becus gini!!! dasar bego

     
  • At April 11, 2006 2:42 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kasian sekali yang mau jadi polisi moral, apa yang Tiara lakukan adalah pilihan dia.Dan apakah anda yg tidak setuju dan membawa-bawa agama dan hari kiamat nyakin kalau anda mati nanti masuk surga. Pakai otak anda untuk berbicara dan memberikan pendapat supaya tidak terlihat kalo anda BEGO.
    Kalau tidak suka lebih baik diam. Coba buka pikiran anda bahwa didunia ini bukan anda dan kelompok anda sendiri. Kebebasan adalah hak setiap orang. Tiara jalan terus buat prestasi yg lebih baik lagi. Jangan hiraukan omongan orang yg sebenarnya mereka iri terhadap kamu. Artinya IRI TANDA TAK MAMPU.

     
  • At April 11, 2006 7:40 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    ...TIARA yesssss....
    ...Orang-Orang Munafik NOOOO !!!
    Yang ngomong ga stuju TIARA di PB, padahal tukang ngoleksi BeEf...

    Jalan Terus TIARA !!! Yang menggonggong itu anjing, dan kau kafilah cantik pujaan dan kebanggaan kita !!!

     
  • At April 11, 2006 5:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    So, before you posed in front of camera, how many times you get fucked?

    BTW, I love your body...your tits so beautiful

     
  • At April 12, 2006 7:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Let me start by saying many of the previous comments do not speak for the majority of Westerners.

    Tiara, you always amaze me with your insightful views. While I wish you would consider doing Playboy style photoshoots in the future, I also understand your reasons for wanting to move on. You now have the ability to write your own ticket in the modeling world, and you should take it any direction you choose.

    I agree with you about introducing Playboy to Indonesia. While I think it should be in Indonesia and you don't, we both agree that it should be decided by the consumers, not activitst. If people want it there, they will buy it. If not, Playboy will move on.

    Tiara, keep up the great work and don't let anyone change you. You're smart and beautiful, which is the best combination of all. See you at Asian-sirens.

     
  • At April 13, 2006 1:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    considering that most indonesian muslims are english-illiterate, im gonna write this in indonesian, so that those hypocrite dogs are able to read and grasp the message:
    sekedar info aja, jumlah perkosaan di negara2 timur tengah yg notabene bersorban & berjilbab itu jauh lebih tinggi drpd perkosaan di rest of the world!!
    mending juga instropeksi diri..kalo emang ngerasa diri sendiri tu bodinya jelek, gendut, bau, dan bloon (ya iya lah bloon, kaga ada oksigen yg masuk kepala!), dan ahirnya milih utk membungkus diri dari rambut ampe jempol, ya jangan maksain orang laen ikutan juga dong, BANGSAATT!!!
    tentang ruu pornoaksi, kenapa harus maksain pake standar agama ttt?! standar tiap individu beda2 bo..yg sexy menurut 1 org, ga tentu dianggep sexy menurut yg laen. lagian, kalo yg porno itu otak si cowo yg berfantasi, kenapa harus cw sexynya yg dihukum?! sama kasusnya dgn klo org muslim lagi puasa, kenapa non-muslim nga boleh makan di umum?! elo2 harus bisa pada nahan diri dong! katanye pahalanye gede..makanye mending juga pada mikir, jing…jangan suka maksain aturan & standar sendiri. soalnya klo ada non-muslim yg berani maksain suatu aturan, si muslim lah org nomer 1 yg protes…klo punya, otak dipake bang…jgn cuma cuap2 sok bermoral sebab mulut loe BAUUU!!! VIVA TIARA!!

     
  • At April 14, 2006 12:44 AM, Blogger Sutan Reza said…

    Thanks karena sudah tampil di Metro. Kamu muncul pada saat yang tepat. Jadilah muslimah sejati, bela agamamu, yang benar akan tetap benar dan yang salah akan tetap salah.Anyway..aku kagum pada ibumu, yang mampi membuatmu kembali ke pangkuannya. Ketidakberadaan jangan sampai membuat kita kufur, begitu juga sebaliknya.

     
  • At April 14, 2006 4:09 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Playboy Indonesia sudah terbit ... beragam reaksi muncul. Tiara, saya melihat kemunculanmu di acara Metro dan harus saya angkat jempol untuk segala keputusanmu. Setiap keputusan yang baik didasarkan atas alasan yang benar.

    Sedangkan untuk Playboy Indo - saya sendiri masih memburunya sebagai barang collectibles ("inilah edisi yang menghebohkan Indonesia!!!") - saya menyalahkan sistem negara ini yang masih berantakan dalam hal hukum, atas beragam reaksi yang muncul secara berlebihan.
    Dari pelajaran PMP dulu waktu SMA (circa thn. 1988), saya ingat betul alasan utama adanya (baca: diciptakannya) hukum: agar semuanya tertib.
    Kita belum mempunyai hukum untuk mengatur peredaran publikasi dewasa. Dan maaf, (sebagian dari) kita bahkan belum punya kesadaran untuk membatasi diri dalam mengedarkan publikasi dewasa pada tempatnya!

    Bila kita bercermin pada negara lain dalam hal ini (waduh, kapan kita bisa mengatakan sebaliknya: orang lain yang bercermin pada negara kita), mereka memiliki perangkat hukum untuk mengatur peredaran publikasi dewasa. Publikasi itu harus diberi label "Restricted", dan hanya bisa diakses di tempat-tempat tertentu. Para pengedar pun dengan sadar akan melarang orang di bawah umur untuk ke bagian tersebut atau menolak menjualnya kepada mereka; sekalipun itu akan menurunkan omzet penjualannya (walau, tetap saja ada pengecualian bila penjualnya "kurang" bermoral). Yang melanggar aturan main yang disepakati bersama (alias "hukum") itu, dapat diadukan ke pengadilan...

    Kalau masih kurang, ada hal lain untuk disalahkan: ekonomi yang morat-marit; tapi ini punya efek yang lebih luas: penyakit, keserakahan, moral, ... you name it.

    So, selamat datang era globalisasi (whether we like it or not; it's coming anyway). Tapi selamat juga untuk Playboy Indo yang berhasil membuat kontrak khusus dengan pusatnya untuk menerbitkan versi yang "sangat di-Indonesiakan" dari publikasi yang menjadi "pioneer" publikasi sejenis, dan menurut saya pribadi, adalah ikon kejeniusan dalam melihat ke masa depan!
    (bandingkan dgn Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mahatma Gandhi, Alexander Graham Bell, Thomas Alfa E., JK. Rowling ... :))
    [K]

     
  • At April 16, 2006 6:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    buat yang post pake nama ucup, lu kalo berani jangan cuma di post doang. ini blog buka untuk caci maki orang dasar amatiran.

     
  • At April 16, 2006 11:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    buat yg namanya "anonymous", klo nga bisa nulis, ya nga perlu nge-blog TOLOL! disini buat adu argumentasi, mana argumen loe!? napsu krn ngerasa kalah debat?? jgn cuma kaya tukang becak yg cuma bisa nantang sambil otaknya kosong! oh iya..at least pake nama, pret! itu juga "kalo berani"..

     
  • At April 19, 2006 1:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Selamat Siang Tiara

    Semoga masa lalu Tiara menjadi barometer untuk memberikan keajaiban pada bangsa ini yang masih butuh kedewasaan terutama pada person yang kurang bertanggung jawab, banyak sekali contohnya salah duanya saja seorang mengaku panutan tetapi tingkah lakunya tidak pantas menjadi panutan...
    Teruslah berkarya seni yang mencerminkan Tiara yang baru terlahir kembali sesuai dengan budaya Indonesia.....Adios Tiara
    Gracias muchas....From priadiandra

     
  • At April 19, 2006 8:02 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara baby you are so not cool!!! what the heck are u talking about, where are u from!!... no sense at all!!! been there done that makes u a fucking slut yeah...i mean you are this indonesain born who actaully pose nude man, made a good name of indonesia yar!!as much as i want to jerk off infront of your pic i really want you to get burn by those muslims!! i say u make porn movie,ill get some abang for your partner, we will earn a considerate amount of money! cheers mate!

     
  • At April 19, 2006 6:02 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    cool gal!
    don't give a damn about the goverment's idea about 'RUU anti pornografi'. you're a real artist. keep on going!!!

     
  • At May 01, 2006 10:54 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    menurut saya, keputusan tiara kemarin ingin tutup buku dan ndak mau telanjang lagi patut dihargai, dan tolong bagi mas atau mba2 jangan manas2sin dia utk telanjang lagi dong, saya yakin kita semua tau terlalu mengeksploitasi bagian tubuh yang tidak semestinya memang ndak baik, perkara kita menjadi orang munafik karena diam2 kita menyukainya bahkan mengoleksinya itu karena kita masih diberi celah untuk itu, jadi stop celah, tutup playboy dan majalah2 lain yang semacamnya, ayo kita semua berpakaian yang sopan, yoooooooooo.

     
  • At May 19, 2006 12:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    kalau mau jujur, saya rasa, bila di indonesia pornografi di bolehin banyak tuh artis2 kita yang mau berbugil ria. wong banyak yang poligami disini gak ada yang ribut, banyak selingkuh, di jadiin trend, udah gitu, kalau ketahuan jeleknya, langsung pakai jilbab, dan menghilang lah, atau sok belajar agama lah. dasar munafik

     
  • At June 09, 2006 11:36 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    what is wrong with this country??? DON'T JUDGE THE CONTENTS FROM THE COVER pleaseee.... there's no nudity in the contents of PB indo.... can't you see??
    negara ini sepertinya masih terlalu kolot untuk berglobalisasi...

     
  • At June 09, 2006 11:41 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    and for bang ucup... just shup up okay? this blog is NOT for swearing and blaming peoples... viva Tiara, buckle up gal!

     
  • At June 16, 2006 3:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    dipsy said:
    mbak tiara...tulisannya keren deh...gudlak ya. aku sekarang lebih bisa berempati. selamat datang di Indonesia, yang warga negaranya sedang belajar demokrasi. ada FBR ada FPI ada juga Ratna Sarumpaet dan Inul. yaahh...maklum aja lah Mbak, kalo protesnya kadang masih pake fisik dan logika gak jalan. moga2 orang Indonesia lebih pinter ya. tiap protes ada argumennya dan gak anarkis. aku sendiri...hem, suka dengan artikel di PB Indonesia. menurutku ada 'isinya' daripada majalah cewek. emang agak risih pas ngeliat pose2 modelnya...tapi wajar sih karena aku kan cewek jadi gak terlalu menikmati. hehehe...masalahnya kenapa cuman playboy ya? padahal ada FHM, dkk-nya, dvd bf yang bajakan, dan masalah yang lebih berat lagi. ah...jalan kita masih panjang ya mbak...untuk menjadi orang indonesia yang pintar.

     
  • At June 29, 2006 9:50 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara! I'm from Brazil. As you probably know, here in my country a magazine like Playboy is too light. In Brazil girls like two show their bodies, and we even have beaches where is prohibited not to be naked.
    All the polemic that is happenning around your cover on Playboy shows how Indonesia it's very close-minded.
    Good luck!!!

     
  • At July 08, 2006 12:42 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara, I love your spirit and your passion in modelling because you are real and do not pretend to be somebody else.

    FOr example michelle leslie, muslim model who get arrested in Indonesia for Drugs.. She wore "JILBAB" just to show the world that she is a nice girl. But after being release.. she still pursuing the lingerie modelling. That is a total hypocrite..!!

    So.. you go gurll.. Maybe I can see you around in SIngapore ( if I am lucky ^-^)

     
  • At July 13, 2006 8:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara, cuma mau bilang.. gue salut banget sama loe! Ur not just pretty but ur also smart.. berani pula! I respect ur decision about appearing in Playboy-Spanish Edition and I also agree to ur opinion about Playboy Indonesia. For me, ur a good role model.. ur in control of ur own life, know what u want and responsible for ur own actions. Itu patut diacungi jempol.. Take care ya!

     
  • At September 06, 2006 6:36 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    que sera sera what will be will be, that already done (your picture on play boy).

    you already made a choice, go ahead, be yourself.

    you can be a light to change indonesian attitude.

    just dont walk in wrong derection

     
  • At March 18, 2007 2:06 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Memang kacau Indonesia !!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Lonte di mana2 ,alkohol bisa beli di mana2 tapi Playboy ga boleh !!!!

     
  • At April 04, 2007 12:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,

    Salut !
    I may made the same thing you did if I had a body like you, but I didnt know if I had the courage to be truth to myself and share your past with other people. May your new life fills with joy and sweet surprises.

     
  • At April 11, 2008 10:08 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Halo tiara, kapan kita ngentot lagi??? I miss you... memek mu mpot2 ayam

     
  • At June 02, 2008 12:24 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    LAGI-LAGI OKNUM POLISI YANG DI FPI MELAKUKAN KEBRINGASAN

    Wah ! Lagi terjadi kekerasan a la jaman kegelapan.

    Seharusnya bukan FPI yang dilarang di Indonesia, malah Islam seharusnya dilarang di Nusantara karena idiologi ini hanya menyulut kebencian dan membuat keonaran, kerusuhan, anarki yang membuat masyarakat Indonesia resah.

     
  • At August 02, 2008 12:20 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    salman said as response for this bullshit journal:
    They want us to believe that pornography is no longer pornography if it is part of the plot of a movie or book, or in a museum or art class, or in a magazine or even a text book. In fact, these two disparities often blend combine each other. They recognize art as sensual and pornography as more overtly sexual. For example: today magazines, such as Playboy, it first published in 1953, changed the way many people thought about nudity and sex. It featured naked women and included articles on politics and fashion that legitimate pornography. Playboy has been considered as art, because

     
  • At August 29, 2008 10:05 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    luar biasa....

    Anis

     
  • At November 22, 2009 1:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Who knows where to download XRumer 5.0 Palladium?
    Help, please. All recommend this program to effectively advertise on the Internet, this is the best program!

     
  • At April 18, 2010 8:42 PM, Anonymous arsyad said…

    hidup adalah pilihan, somebody is only listeners.. fight up!

     

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