Tiara Lestari's Personal Journal

My words, my feeling, my memories, my experiences. Mostly, this is me.

Friday, December 02, 2005

Trust & The Golden Rule

Hi everyone. I'm back.

I'm really sorry for the lack of posting last month. I am truly sorry but hope that you'd understand once you finish reading this post.

Writing this post is one of the hardest things I have ever done since I started this blog. It took me so long just to finish one paragraph. Look... I've been having personal issues that I know most of you have gone through and it is never easy. Yes, it's an issue with my relationship.

Relationship is hard. Do you remember how you were first felt the attraction with your partner? Do you remember that moment? First you were attracted to a person, you spent time with him, and things were wonderful, but at some point, it's just like breathing....routine, and you don't think about it. At times, you don't even appreciate it.

I don't know how it started, all I know that it got worst... fast. And instead of dealing with the problem, I chose another path. I took a path which to some people would be considered breaking my commitment as a girlfriend.

To make a long story short, I came back and told my boyfriend what I did. I am certain that a lot of relationships would not survived this episode. What I have done is not something that most partner can easily accept. However, his reaction was not what I expected. Perhaps, he was also deeply aware of the problems we were having as a couple and we both chose different paths to make ourselves feel better. Wrong paths.

That night became the most insightful, honest and -at times- painful moment in our relationship. It was a moment when two people were caught at a crossroad. A moment where the affair of the hearts must be decided now or it would never see the light of day again. A decision was made and we did it together.

For me, that night was the beginning of a new relationship. A relationship which value honestly and respect for each other. We both are going to try to make this relationship work.

Relationship is hard enough even without any problem. You have to work on it and trust is a very important factor, if not the most important. In my relationship, I have broken his trust and now I have to earn back his trust. I know it's gonna take time. But I am going to do everything in my power to do just that because -in the end- I want this relationship to work.

I just finished reading a book from a relationship expert called A Relationship For A Lifetime by Kelly E. Johnson,M.D. He said the golden rule of a relationship is this:

If it works for only one of you, it won't work for your relationship.

I understand that now...

Tiara

76 Comments:

  • At December 02, 2005 9:20 AM, Blogger priaberbajuhitam said…

    just excactly what i've been through right now...
    persis dengan apa yang sedang gw alamin sekarang, cuman bedanya... gw yg jadi objeknya...
    ahh mbak tiara... kayanya kita punya kasus yg sama dehh... wat a coincidence...

     
  • At December 02, 2005 11:23 AM, Anonymous Eiko koike is hotter than Tiara said…

    Eiko Koike is hotter than Tiara :
    http://images.google.com/images?q=Eiko+Koike&hl=en&btnG=Search+Images

     
  • At December 02, 2005 1:26 PM, Anonymous Dave said…

    Tiara,
    I have read your blog a few months, as I do several others and enjoy your postings. You seem willing to share a few of your inner feelings and faults! Refreshing. We all fall down now and again. Life would be no fun if this was not the case. Best wishes to both of you in your relationship. It may have just grown stronger!

     
  • At December 02, 2005 4:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hi tiara, i have been reading your blog for 2 days, yesterday and today. cause i was dead bored at my office, so i browse around read other people blog and i encounter your blog. first i don't know what is your profession. i saw half naked photos of a lady in every post, i don't even know that is you, but the content (your posting) is really refreshing. I like to read your blog. After read and read then i realize, that you a fashion model, but you can write very well. Who say pretty woman got no brain?

    I am indonesian, but working and staying in singapore. You are welcome to visit my blog at http://sinarta.com

    yuliana sinarta

     
  • At December 03, 2005 1:10 AM, Anonymous Playboy said…

    That's just another prove that you're a real SLUT, Tiara!
    I have pity to your current BF.

    BTW, can't you have better pictures than that obvious looking shots? Like I said, more exposure!

     
  • At December 03, 2005 3:59 AM, Anonymous LINDI CISTIA PRABHA said…

    HI ALL IT'S ME : LINDI CISTIA PRABHA ,2005 INDONESIAN MISS WORLD. beautiful enough to be in beauty contest ! now THAT'S A GREAT ACHIEVEMENT ! no need to pose NUDE like TIARA :black slutty model with SMALL TITIES black nipples, you suck ! http://www.missworld.tv/bio/bio.sps?iBiographyID=51749

     
  • At December 03, 2005 4:12 AM, Anonymous tiaralestari said…

    This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.

     
  • At December 03, 2005 8:17 AM, Anonymous Playboy said…

    So Tiara, now that you're back. Care to face that interview Raya's challenged you?

    I doubt it!

     
  • At December 03, 2005 9:14 AM, Anonymous Lucia said…

    For Lindi -whether you are the real Lindi or not-, please be nice. You have chosen to be runner up of Puteri Indonesia. I'm pretty sure that if a women have won the title, that's because u are eligible based on 3B: BRAIN, BEAUTY and BEHAVIOUR.

    So please, don't jugde other people. You're making youself not worthy of the title if you keep bullying other. You're also going to pose in swimsuit anyway. Be prepared for the controversy! Be wise, ok?

    Cheers!

    PS: If you are a fan of Lindi, congratulations, you just made your role model looked stupid.
    Sorry for the irrelevant post. Tiara, i will respond about ur post through email. Be strong!

     
  • At December 03, 2005 6:15 PM, Anonymous tiaraishorny said…

    i like squirt my juice into your eyeball and in your nose hole. after, i will put my finger in your butt and wipe my finger on the brim of you mouth. then i put my butt cheeks next to your nose and fart in your face.

     
  • At December 04, 2005 7:56 AM, Anonymous Playboy said…

    Lucia, are you that stupid to see that was not the real lindi? Either way the real lindi is too far to be compared with Tiara. Hmmm I meant she's just too precious to be equal with someone like this nude model ;)

    For me, the kind of achievement lindi or my JAVA GODESS, ANGGUN has made really meant something, and that makes us proud of her!

     
  • At December 04, 2005 8:25 AM, Anonymous lucia said…

    Well, playboy. i suppose you are not bright enough to see that there's a "hidden" message from my previous post. I'm not comparing anybody. Everybody is different. I DO proud of Anggun. I DID proud of Lindi.. but not anymore.. and everything because of "Lindi". Btw, thank you for your comment. I'm not trying to make a new topic for another fight, so... peace out.

    Cheers!

     
  • At December 05, 2005 12:37 AM, Anonymous nots said…

    hi tiara, nice to read ur post..
    gw pikir,apa yg kamu lakukan benar, say sorry and try to bring ur relationship ti the right way. it's not easy to say the truth,but to say the truth means u really appreciate ur boyfriend...two thumbs up for u...
    i want to sent email for u, but i don't want to disturb u:D
    regards, yunita

     
  • At December 05, 2005 8:12 AM, Anonymous Joan said…

    Tiara, sorry to hear the hard time you've been through. But once again, you show us your honesty. Wish you all the best!

     
  • At December 05, 2005 9:00 AM, Anonymous Playboy said…

    Lucia, if you're smart enough, then you wouldn't just created that 'hidden' message out of the comment made by that lindi impostor.

    How about all other comments made in for Tiara, should that also make your role model Tiara looks much more stupid, huh?

     
  • At December 05, 2005 9:04 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Hi everyone,

    Lucia, Yunita and Joan.. thanks for your comments. I miss you guys! This posting was difficult for me to write. Comments like yours and Yuliana's made me realize I was not alone facing such an issue. Thank you.

    Now it seems like I have to put my foot down once again. You can say whatever you want here. Good, bad or ugly... but do not use my name when you make these comments. I am deleting the two comments using my name here.

    I do not delete comments. I do not like to do that. But, this is a bit much. The person was not just a coward, he is actually dumb enough to use my name (as if I am low enough to write such trash on my own blog).

    Tiara

     
  • At December 05, 2005 9:50 AM, Blogger Binky Sphinx said…

    I'm left to assume the worst case scenario here since the details are kind of sketchy.

    Personally, there isn't a woman in the world that's exceptional enough to avoid me from instantly kicking her ass to the curb after hearing a confession like that and turning my back on her for good. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. That's how I roll.

    Seriously, Tiara... Perhaps it would be a wise course of action for you to stay away from boys altogether for a spell. It sounds to me as if you need to catch your bearings first lest someone else gets hurt, yourself inclusive.

    Why don't you take some acting and elocution classes and just get yourself a role in a soap opera instead of turning your life into one?

    Here's another quote for ya,

    ”To thine own self be true,
    And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou can not then be false to any man.”


    PS: I think it's also time you reconsidered your "anything goes" posting policy. The comments these retards are leaving are turning this place into a seeming cesspool of smut and hate... Way too much yang and far too little yin.

     
  • At December 05, 2005 9:06 PM, Anonymous Eve said…

    Tiara
    Ignore what others think about you. They're just jealous of your success. You've done very well. Although majority average Indonesians will not agree to their fellow Indonesian posing for Playboy, we are proud of you overseas. From your posting, I could see a beautiful girl who is still not blinded by popularity. Good on you girl! Hope you sort your love life out.

    PS. Love your hair and colour. My hair dresser will have to work hard this weekend! :-)

     
  • At December 05, 2005 9:11 PM, Anonymous wonglondo said…

    Tiara, I'm afraid I have to agree with Binkyboy. Even though it took courage for you to confess the events to your boyfriend, the relation will never be the same.

    I experienced it once myself, after several years in a long time relationship, I confessed that I hadn't been loyal to my girlfriend, but that those days were gone (which was really the case.. Living in a lie makes you feel empty inside after a while..) and that I wanted to only be with her, but that I would understand if she would break up because of my confession. After the obvious anger (lasted one whole week), she decided to give it a try together because what we built was too precious to just throw away. We stayed together for one more year, but the relation became sour. There were too much grievances from her side, and not enough trust.
    Even though I realise the situation is rather different, I believe that cheating once on your relation will forever ruin the purity of that relation. And it is exactly this purity that makes relations special, and successfull on the long term.

    Well, don't wanna spoil the hopes you and your boyfriend have for the recovery of your relationship, but I would be pessimistic if I were you. Good luck, also to your boyfriend (is he Indonesian by the way?)!
    Regards.

     
  • At December 05, 2005 10:57 PM, Anonymous sabina said…

    Tiara,
    I loved your blog from day one I read them. I am just so amaze with this posting. Thank you so much for being so open and honest to all of us. You don't have to do that. I know.

    I am commenting solely out of respect for you and your boyfriend. I assumed you two talked about this posting before you actually write it. The simple fact you worked out your issues and actually write them for the world to see, for me, reflected the maturity level you both have as human beings and as a couple.

    I have to respectfully disagree with Binky and Wonglondo on this one. I believe that Tiara and her boyfriend somehow managed to find solution to a problem felt by both of them. Tiara was honest and he seemed to accept the premise of a mutual reconciliation. Isn’t that a crucial step where most relationship ended? What would be the problem?

    Well the way I see it, you both made a new commitment to each other and as long as you both respect each other in that same way, I believe there is no power in this world strong enough to stop your relationship. Good for you both!

    Tiara, this world is filled with people looking for love and never ever finding them. I think you both have found a special place for two people to cherish each other. You boyfriend seemed to love you for who you are and not what you are to us. That’s rare. The way you opened up to him about your “wrong path” indicates a level of honesty of someone who is truly in love.

    “Hold on to each other and let the heavens shower you with light so bright it blinded those who cannot see and enlightened those who can only feel”

    Love,
    Sabina

     
  • At December 06, 2005 4:01 AM, Blogger designJUNKIE said…

    I've been reading this blog for a couple of days since...and I gotta say that the circumstance are similar to what I have experienced. She too, confessed to me and at one point, we've decided to end it. Trust, it seems, to earn after the collapse is an uphill battle for her. But I remembered that for any relationship to work, I've got to play my part as well. True, she's working on earning my trust now, and I'm playing my role as an understanding partner...and it seems to be a much more beautiful relationship now than it ever was.

    I hope it works the same for you.

     
  • At December 06, 2005 7:20 AM, Anonymous raya said…

    ah... a new post.
    about relationship. hmmm...

     
  • At December 06, 2005 9:36 AM, Blogger Soulful said…

    Dear Tiara,

    like said by many others, no easy way in relationship. But communication is the key, along with committment. It's important to let each other know what you want from each other.

    If you expect perfection, relationships will never work. We're humans so we make a booboo every once a while. However, you need to always learn to compromise. Sometimes you also gotta sweat the small things if those things are basic principles for the relationship.

    Congrats for a new beginning & I'm wishing you both all the best. I would assume that couples who just been thru a big "leap" like yours, are also opening a new big door on each others hearts. You know each other better now, I hope :)

    PS: I like that quote at the end & couldn't agree more.

     
  • At December 06, 2005 10:49 AM, Blogger TiaraLestari said…

    Hi Everyone,

    Binky, Soul girl, Raya welcome back! It is good to see you guys back here again.

    To new folks with new voices: Wonglondo,Eve, Sabina, Design Junkie.. welcome to my blog!

    Look.. I was having a hard time -not just writing- but also deciding to post this one. I actually considered deleting this post yesterday. I just felt I was opening up too much to the world. I felt vulnerable.

    This post is a couple of days old and you guys made me realize that I am not alone. A lot of people have gone through what I just experienced. You sharing your stories and opinion means the world to me. I thank you. All of you....

    Tiara

     
  • At December 06, 2005 7:29 PM, Blogger IndCoup said…

    So you shag around a bit. That's no big deal.

    But who's your *lucky* boyfriend? Tell us more.

     
  • At December 07, 2005 5:01 AM, Anonymous adith said…

    Auw... i think a lot of us felt almost the same about it, in different circumstance....
    actually in relationship; is always about us right ? we feel happy because what we choose make us happy, and also contrary...
    when we feel sad because we feel like what we choose and have done wrong.
    Just like when we`re still kid, when we can`t not do like we want we felt sad, and the contrary... right ?

    Is always about ourselve right ? like tiara says However, his reaction was not what I expected. every term we always have the first assumption about something..... and like always if what we assumption wrong, we felt bad and worse....

    So, don`t think the relation like that would not last long :D
    i`m i right ?

    well, at least you still have playboy waiting for your love... :P
    hahahaha..........

     
  • At December 07, 2005 9:35 PM, Blogger sontoloyo said…

    Breaking up is the most hardest of the relationship.I dpn't ever like the memory and the feeling that linger after the event of it.

    It's like you just knew that you're gonna miss that bad ass, but you must let go of him.

    Hope you feel better now and you can easily find peace in this state.You've got friends there to look after you chill out.Be Brave

     
  • At December 08, 2005 12:00 AM, Anonymous raya said…

    just read the post.
    must've felt pretty bad, huh? in any case, i would recommend rethinking your current relationship because this episode has happened.

    you gotta have a reason to "want it to work" now, cause, heck, apparently it didn't work that well in the first place.

    "wanting it to work" is not a reason. find your reason, do not create it, just be honest and true to yourself. if there's not enough of it, then why force yourself and your boyf?

     
  • At December 08, 2005 5:59 PM, Blogger Mickell said…

    A life-long relationship indeed requires tons of trust and respect indeed. This trust has to be earned. It doesn't come automatically. Feelings of love toward each other will fade. Only a decision to stay committed to each other will stand and keep a couple together. When a couple sticks to a decision to stay committed to each other, feelings of love will follow :)

     
  • At December 08, 2005 9:03 PM, Anonymous hornymuslimhypocrite said…

    ho ho ho. merry christmas

     
  • At December 10, 2005 1:21 AM, Blogger rocky said…

    Honesty is important in a relationship, but the most important thing is commitment.

    We are all made of the same stuff, so we all make mistakes, or will make mistakes some time in life.

    Commitment helps to focus on the larger and more transcendent picture of the relationship.

     
  • At December 10, 2005 7:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,

    I am right to say I have seen you in a Singapore video having sex. I am almost certain it is you.
    Regards.
    M

     
  • At December 10, 2005 2:58 PM, Anonymous tiarra in xxx video? said…

    M . . . tell me which movie it is. I want to check it out

     
  • At December 10, 2005 11:13 PM, Anonymous Playboy said…

    Guys, you all made me want to puke! All these sentimental postings...just too much crabs.

    As for me, I rather hear Tiara write story about her fucking around back in Indonesia. Give me the details, they will send a better feeling than your bs soap opera story.

    Btw, glad you've learned not to use that 'power to delete BUTTOM' anymore ;)

    One more thing, when you going to face that interview with Raya? Still scare of revealing your air head?

    No more nude photos, Tiara???

     
  • At December 11, 2005 1:42 AM, Anonymous Tiara_Boyfriend said…

    If I were Tiara's current boyfriend, I wouldn't survive to be with a girl who slept with many different men. I feel like having sex with a whore.

    It's just won't work as it was before the betrayal. Who knows while having sex with me, Tiara's imagination goes far to her ex?

     
  • At December 11, 2005 1:44 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Agree 2 u 2. Imagine Tiara gave a blow job to you while she gave ones to other men before. Yike..

     
  • At December 11, 2005 9:32 AM, Blogger priaberbajuhitam said…

    Binky, Soul girl, Raya welcome back!
    Lucia, Yunita and Joan.. thanks for your comments.
    To new folks with new voices: Wonglondo,Eve, Sabina, Design Junkie.. welcome to my blog!

    melihat comment kamu ini, aku jadi iri dengan mereka yang selalu engkau sebutkan dalam postinganmu... apakah mereka yang selalu membicarakan "the good thing" about u aja yg bakal kamu sebut... hihihi... shame on me! perasaan gw ga pernah ngomongin yang nggak2 tentangmu tapi ga pernah kamu sebut2
    yauda memang sih aku nggak jago2 banget dalam berbahasa inggris seperti mereka hiks...hiks... tapi aku juga manusia hehehe...
    u know wat... it's not a big deal if u do such a thing {gw ga terima aja kl hanya mereka2 saja yg d sebut...}
    damn i hate u tiara if u do that...

    PS : 4 the others, thank 4 reading this comment... no offense right!
    satu lagi... i believe that "playboy" would read this comments to... so 4 u playboy... keep up with those comment, because itulah warna-warni komentar hehehehe [ngarti kaga lo play....?]

     
  • At December 12, 2005 4:37 AM, Blogger designJUNKIE said…

    hey tiara,

    thanks for the wecoming words. its good to know that you realise you're not alone in this...everybody goes through it in one way or another...its how you move on in life that matters....

    Am I making any sense?..lol

     
  • At December 12, 2005 10:33 PM, Blogger sontoloyo said…

    AS i say life is already suck enough with all the unwind relationship between us.Friends,family,b/g friends,neighbour.
    Is it really our feeling only last for a short time and try to think hard to see the incommon between us.
    What's with a two person is two unique human being that need not to be the same to be together things ?

    Arghrr..just wanna say to you "Be tough and let it flow Tiara"

     
  • At December 13, 2005 5:07 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Tiara,

    What guarantee that you won't go down the wrong path again in the future? No man can resist you.

     
  • At December 13, 2005 2:36 PM, Anonymous brad_pitt_loves_jolie_after_fucked_jenny said…

    Tiara , did it ever cross your slutty mind that we men just want to plug your pussy and leave ?it's simple as that, cuz we men are basically sexual predators, all that love and shit will easily be replaced once we get another hole to plug... I am sure your ex is proudly showing this blog to other men that he "used" you, and now he is fucking "tighter" pussy than yours

     
  • At December 13, 2005 4:53 PM, Anonymous tiarawillgivemehead said…

    i pik my bunghole and let Tiara sniff my deep stench aroma

     
  • At December 13, 2005 8:50 PM, Anonymous tiaramakemehorny said…

    i have surprise. in my pant is big and full of warm sticky holiday goody for tiara mouth. i like to look at her picture and squirt her my love juice.

     
  • At December 14, 2005 1:09 AM, Anonymous Jakarta pimp said…

    Tiara, if you're cheating on your boyfriend behind his back by fucking guys like Mr R, you should at least be rewarded financially for doing so. Drop me a line and I'll add you to my list of models and Sinetron actresses who rent their anal cavity for Rp.$5m per night.

     
  • At December 14, 2005 2:31 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Tiara,

    I came accros a amateur video on an P2P program where it is available for download. Something with "Real Life Fu#%ing in Singapore" .
    Any comments if that is you.
    Regards,
    M

     
  • At December 15, 2005 12:22 PM, Blogger Binky Sphinx said…

    I was having a hard time -not just writing- but also deciding to post this one. I actually considered deleting this post yesterday. I just felt I was opening up too much to the world. I felt vulnerable.

    As interesting as it is to read your comments, some things you really should keep private amongst those you can absolutely trust. You will learn as your popularity continues to grow that when you give your private moments away, it's very hard to get them back.

    I won't tell you how to run your blog, but I'd stick to the abstract discussion and avoid the details of that sort of stuff.

    I just can't agree with the comments left by others that your 'experience' is something that can be worked out, communicated through, etc. You crossed a relationship boundary that you obviously weren't ready to set in the first place.

    My recommendation for you to stay away from serious relationships until you've worked things out within your own head and heart still stands.

    God almighty, I'm tired!

    Trent

     
  • At December 15, 2005 8:02 PM, Anonymous trent-is-a-skinny-geek said…

    "God almighty, I'm tired!"

    In that case, change hands, stick boy.

     
  • At December 16, 2005 1:56 PM, Anonymous ARTI SURYAPUTRI IS HOT said…

    ATTENTION ATTENTION INDONESIAN GUYS..THERE IS ANOTHER NEW INDONESIAN GIRL NUDE MODEL , HER NAME IS Arti Suryaputri , bye bye Tiara !! click here : http://www.asianthumbs.org/cgi-bin/search.cgi?query=Suryaputri

     
  • At December 16, 2005 1:57 PM, Anonymous Arti Suryaputri is HOTTER than TIARA said…

    ATTENTION ATTENTION INDONESIAN GUYS..THERE IS ANOTHER NEW INDONESIAN GIRL NUDE MODEL , HER NAME IS Arti Suryaputri , bye bye Tiara !! click here : http://www.asianthumbs.org/cgi-bin/search.cgi?query=Suryaputri

     
  • At December 16, 2005 1:59 PM, Anonymous Arti Suryaputri is HOT said…

    ATTENTION ATTENTION INDONESIAN GUYS..THERE IS ANOTHER NEW INDONESIAN GIRL NUDE MODEL , HER NAME IS Arti Suryaputri , bye bye Tiara !! click here : http://www.asianthumbs.org/cgi-bin/search.cgi?query=Suryaputri

     
  • At December 16, 2005 5:22 PM, Blogger ATB_NL_indo said…

    hot picture hehe

     
  • At December 16, 2005 8:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello there

    It's obvious that your last posting in Nov (Women, Literature and Fiery Red Thongs) are totally in contrast with what you've said in this posting i.e. what you've done is not what you said (or perhaps stand for).

    Your consolation - your honesty.

    The final result - no one knows how your relationship will go with your present beau. I do know that one can forgive but one cannot forget, especially in moments of weakness i.e an argument.

    My recommendation - a serious soul searching exercise for yourself, by yourself.

    Final point - please don't generalise men - after all, you're with one.

    Welcome to the REAL world.

    Regards
    Phil.

     
  • At December 17, 2005 9:13 AM, Anonymous Arti Suryaputri is HOTTER than TIARA said... said…

    Arti Suryaputri is HOTTER than TIARA said...
    ATTENTION ATTENTION INDONESIAN GUYS..THERE IS ANOTHER NEW INDONESIAN GIRL NUDE MODEL , HER NAME IS Arti Suryaputri , bye bye Tiara !! click here : http://www.asianthumbs.org/cgi-bin/search.cgi?query=Suryaputri

     
  • At December 17, 2005 9:14 AM, Anonymous Arti Suryaputri is HOTTER than TIARA said…

    ATTENTION ATTENTION INDONESIAN GUYS..THERE IS ANOTHER NEW INDONESIAN GIRL NUDE MODEL , HER NAME IS Arti Suryaputri , bye bye Tiara !! click here : http://www.asianthumbs.org/cgi-bin/search.cgi?query=Suryaputri

     
  • At December 18, 2005 8:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    aku adhit dari klaten indonesia
    assalamuallaikum WR.WB. tiara, km sangat cantik, menggoda, sexy, dll
    tapi sebagai orang islam sebaiknya km menutup sedikit aurat km. meski km seorang model yang udah terkenal & udah menjadi salah satu model yang menjadi cover majalah playboy. ak bilang beginikarena aku menghargai wanita sebagai seorang yang patut untuk dihormati. meskipun aku belum pernah ketemu sama kamu, tapi aku merasa suatu ketika aku akan bertemu denganmu. aku punya keyakinan begini karena aku percaya kalau yang diomongkan orang dengan kamu sebenernya itu berbeda. orang2 waktu pertama melihat kamu jd model di cover play boy langsung berpikiran kamu adalah cewek murahan yang mau memperliatkan tubuhnya demi uang, tapi aku berkeyakinan lain bahwa kamu adalah gadis yang tangguh dan tidak buta akan hal itu smua. tiara semoga dengan apa yang ak tulis ini kamu sedikit memperhatikan suara dari para pangagummu.
    wassalamuallaikum WR. WB

     
  • At December 18, 2005 9:18 AM, Blogger aditya ardi said…

    aku adhit dari klaten indonesia
    assalamuallaikum WR.WB. tiara, km sangat cantik, menggoda, sexy, dll
    tapi sebagai orang islam sebaiknya km menutup sedikit aurat km. meski km seorang model yang udah terkenal & udah menjadi salah satu model yang menjadi cover majalah playboy. ak bilang beginikarena aku menghargai wanita sebagai seorang yang patut untuk dihormati. meskipun aku belum pernah ketemu sama kamu, tapi aku merasa suatu ketika aku akan bertemu denganmu. aku punya keyakinan begini karena aku percaya kalau yang diomongkan orang dengan kamu sebenernya itu berbeda. orang2 waktu pertama melihat kamu jd model di cover play boy langsung berpikiran kamu adalah cewek murahan yang mau memperliatkan tubuhnya demi uang, tapi aku berkeyakinan lain bahwa kamu adalah gadis yang tangguh dan tidak buta akan hal itu smua. tiara semoga dengan apa yang ak tulis ini kamu sedikit memperhatikan suara dari para pangagummu.
    wassalamuallaikum WR. WB

     
  • At December 20, 2005 9:28 PM, Blogger Dimdim said…

    Hi Tiara,
    I read your post already in your 2 blogspot accounts and I have to say that you are a smart and incependence girl. Not only that, you are also a brave woman. And trully, that might be something rare that can be found in one human being. However your photos in the pb magazines were quite shocking. As a moslem (and I believe you are a moslem as well), is it possible for me to remind you that you have been too far ? We will not live here forever, Tiara. Someday, you will have to explain it to the One. I like you but I have to tell you this. Hope you understand. Peace!

     
  • At December 21, 2005 7:00 PM, Anonymous biggdogg said…

    A good relationship CAN survive infidelity if it is an isolated event but the reasons for the infidelity are important. If you cheated because you weren't getting something you need from your b-f then you b-f needs to accept responsibility for that and try to improve. If you just cheated because you had a moment of weakness then you have to expect that your b-f will want some blatant assurances that you will not put yourself in that situation again. It takes time to get over something like that and whatever trust you had is gone for a while and you have to accept that. If your b-f becomes a little suspicious of your activities or people you are hanging around, then, like it or not, you have to accept that if you want the relationship to continue. Basically, there is a 'punishment' phase after the cheating where you are obligated to show your sincerity by putting up with a bunch of jealousy and suspicion. After you prove your fidelity for now and the future...you can move forward and have a good relationship...but your b-f will ALWAYS have that sliver of doubt in your fidelity...that is the price you pay...
    good luck either way

     
  • At December 22, 2005 2:36 PM, Blogger dian mercury said…

    hi tiara..merry cmas..and happy new year. be strong. wish u all the best!

     
  • At December 23, 2005 5:05 PM, Anonymous Arty Suryaputri said…

    she is not celebrating C MAS you stupid moron - she is a muslim, you should've greeted her 2 months ago with " HAPPY RAMADHAN".. you black slutty muslim...

     
  • At December 25, 2005 5:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    If she's muslim why did she do nude photoshoots?

     
  • At December 26, 2005 10:46 PM, Anonymous mesohornytiara said…

    she horny, that why she do nude

     
  • At December 27, 2005 11:20 PM, Anonymous galadriel said…

    hi tiara!

    i love reading blogs and you're now in my list of 'must read' blogs :) i like the fact that it's about your thoughts and aspirations as well, not just about your job. didn't have time today to check out your 'for women' only section, but will do that soon (when my boss is not around ehehehe)

    take care!

     
  • At December 29, 2005 12:47 AM, Blogger IndCoup said…

    trust or honesty is something that Tiara would know nothing about. She promised to link to my article about her, but refuses to do so. Is it cos she doesn't like people seeing her bum?

    http://indcoup.blogspot.com/2005/11/remember-your-responsibilities-tiara.html

     
  • At December 29, 2005 3:50 AM, Blogger rha-k said…

    Life is so beautiful.. Woman is so amazing.. Tiara Lestari is so what gituh lhoh? :) Lam Knal yach Tiara, trully, aQ belum pernah punya teman seperti kamu.. 4 non-Indonesian speakers, I'm sorry about my campoer2 language :p

     
  • At December 31, 2005 12:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Happy New Year 2006 from Indonesia!

    http://bialoglowy.blogspot.com/2006/01/happy-new-year-2006-from-indonesia.html

    PS: Tiara, here is a calendar of Public Holidays for Singapore and Indonesia for ya.

     
  • At January 02, 2006 6:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You are a cute girl and cute girls get to do what they want because there will always be more guys that will come calling. He is not a scarce commodity, but you are.

    He will just have to get used to that...unless he is very rich.

     
  • At January 13, 2006 6:47 PM, Anonymous ferdy said…

    Hemm..Tiara, blogger kamu ini pakai Editor khusus ya? Dari penulisannya ini terlalu dalam & personal(Maaf Bila Tidak Berkenan)& Selalu mengundang polemik.Kalau betul Tiara sendiri yang tulis, wahh..Hebat. Manusiawi sekali.Soal Hubungan dengan Pasangan, Sedikit cerita ya :"1/2 + 1/2=1" ,Kalau "1+1=2", Jadi 2 orang tdk bisa jadi 1 Kalau tidak merelakan yg 1/2 dari dirinya.Memang akan "sakit" bila 'putus', tapi "No pain No Gain" . Itulah indahnya Cinta :).Happy New Year .
    Salam,
    ferdyprox@yahoo.com

     
  • At January 18, 2006 1:38 AM, Blogger Aleeka Kiana said…

    Tiara,
    your picture is very hot
    but i like it.

     
  • At January 20, 2006 3:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi,

    I asked you before but maybe you want to check out this link to see if I am right.
    Is this you in the "adult" video, download the "nonie-noraini" one
    http://www.canberrasec.net/~c1e332/Metal/ (may take some time)
    No offense by all means, if not who is she, she looks alot like you.
    Hope to have your reply

     
  • At May 16, 2006 11:02 PM, Blogger Umi Afifah said…

    Hm............, gimana ya

     
  • At December 04, 2006 3:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Pengen cari foto model gampang deh.... aku tau alamatnya http://www.wowasian.com/main.shtml
    Coba aja... pasti enak...

     
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